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Safety Tip of the Week: Accidents In Your Driveway

Accidents in the driveway are more common than you might think; but when you consider how easily and quickly they can happen, you’ll understand how dangerous they can be.

Picture this: You are leaving home and have kissed your little one goodbye. You head off to your car, settle in, start the ignition, pop the transmission into reverse and slowly start to back out when you hear a thud. Perplexed, you get out to check and are greeted by the horrifying sight of your little one’s body, lying halfway under your car.

Image credit: Lundy Law

These types of accidents can happen to anyone especially because toddlers are by nature incredibly fast and can dart from the house to behind your car surprisingly quickly

Those driving distracted, under the influence, or whose vehicles are not fitted with rear park sensors or reverse cameras are easily vulnerable to these types of accidents. Of course, similar mishaps can take place along the roads within residential complexes, shopping mall parking areas, and even fuel service stations. The key is to be alert and to drive slowly whenever you are in the vicinity of small children.

Safe Driving Tips For Expectant Moms

Your journey to parenthood is an exciting time that requires much preparation, and also includes staying safe on the road. During pregnancy, mothers-to-be need to continuously make in-vehicle adjustments to ensure optimal positioning and safety while driving.

Proper Use of Child Car Seats

Using the correct child car seat sizes for the age and weight of the child is crucial. Harnessing an infant in a seat that is too big is dangerous, as is trying to fit a child into a seat that they have outgrown.

5 Common Car Seat Installation Mistakes

As a parent, it is important that you find a car seat which fits your child. However, the best or most expensive car seat won’t work to keep your child safe if it isn’t installed correctly

Here’s how driving with unrestrained passengers could kill you

by Vuyi Mpofu

Every now and then, the effectiveness of seatbelts and child restrains comes under scrutiny, usually in the form of a tête-à-tête at a braai or similar social gathering.

Recently, I found myself reluctantly drawn into a spirited banter with a visitor from a European country about the use or non-use of restraints in South Africa.  Fortunately, it was within a social setting and the gentleman in question – a devotee of Ignition TV – was aware of my feisty personality, which helped take the sting out of most of my commentary, (I hope).

The discussion begun when he commented about the high rate of fatalities in South Africa but, took a sour turn when he proclaimed “seatbelts are not a thing in this country.  I retorted by saying that everyone I know uses seatbelts but deep down, I knew that my social circle was not represented in the broad statement he had made.

Being as passionate as I am about road safety and feeling rather patriotic it wasn’t long before we were trading thinly veiled verbal blows about road safety in South Africa; and the flexible standards of quality control when it comes to certain vehicles and tyres which are permitted into our country.

Seatbelts should be ‘a thing’ among all road users

While it may be accurate to say that seatbelts and child restraints usage do not come as second nature to South African road users as in Europe and other parts of the world, we managed to agree that education was a key factor in reducing the number of serious injuries and mortalities on our roads.  As part of our efforts to find mutual ground and conclude the heated discussion, I agreed to share more information about seatbelts and child restraints, starting with this article.

Why don’t more South Africans use Seatbelts and Child Restraints?

The reality in our country is that there are roughly two distinct audiences for seatbelt and child restraints education.  One, is familiar with them and appreciates their purpose,  largely because they are among the millions of South Africans who own cars and use them daily.  The other, is the vast majority of the population who rely on taxies and buses, in which any type of occupant restraints seem to come as an optional extra.

I say this with caution as manufacturers of local commercial people movers do include seatbelts in their vehicles.  That said, I am hard-pressed to recall ever stopping at a traffic light and seeing the occupants in a taxi all buckled up.

What are seatbelts and child restraints for?

Seatbelts and child restraints should be seen as a secondary safety devices, created to minimize injury to a person in the event of an accident.  Their main purpose is to:

  1. Prevent you from being ejected from the car at the point of impact in the event of an accident
  2. Distribute the forces of a crash over the strongest parts of your body
  3. Prevent the probability of causing injury to other occupants*
  4. Reduce your risk of coming into contact with the interior of the vehicle
  5. Reduce the risk of serious injury in the event that you do come in contact with the vehicle’s interior

Granted, there are instances where people have reported failure in the mechanics of a seatbelt, particularly the buckle function.  In these occurrences, motorists have reportedly been unable to unbuckle them, resulting in an occupant becoming stuck in their seat.

As legitimate as these concerns are, and not to downplay their occurrences, the percentage of seatbelt buckle failure is minuscule compared to the number of times seatbelts and child restraints have played a major role in saving lives and reducing injuries.

The Importance of Seatbelts for Adults

There are three types of “collisions” that occur in every accident where occupants of a car are unrestrained.

The first type of collision occurs between the vehicle and another object, e.g. another vehicle(s), a stationary object (tree, signpost, or ditch), or a human or animal. The second, occurs between the unbelted occupants and the interior of the vehicle, e.g. the driver hits her chest against the steering wheel or her head against the window. The third and final type of collision takes place when the internal organs of the body knock against the body’s skeletal structure.

Of the three, it is the second collision that is responsible for most injuries.  It is by far, the cause of the most frequent and life-threatening injuries which happen to victims of head-on accidents involving occupants unrestrained by seatbelts.  These injuries, in order of importance are, a hit to the head, the chest followed by the abdomen.

Here’s what happens to an unrestrained adult in an accident

Let’s imagine you are driving with 2 other people in the car.  As the driver, you habitually buckle up but fail to notice or enforce the use of restraints on your passengers.  Perhaps youare under the influence of alcohol, drugs, or medication, or perhaps you are simply in the habit of driving fast because your car has a powerful engine.  Whatever the reason, in this scenario let us say you are driving well above the speed limit, at 140km/hr.  Suddenly, the vehicle in front of yours comes to dead stop.

As your car ploughs into the stationary vehicle.  You, the restrained driver are propelled forward for an unceremonious kissing session with the airbag while the pretensioner of your seatbelt simultaneously tugs at your torso.  Your head cracks against the window and bounces off your headrest, assuming of course that the window was closed and the headrest positioned in such a way as to provide the necessary support.

At the same time, the front passenger, flies into the windscreen and is projected out of the car. She bounces off the bonnet before landing on the rear of the preceding vehicle, (because she was unrestrained at point of impact, it is quite possible that she lands intothe vehicle).

Meanwhile, your equally unrestrained back seat passenger crashes into the backrest of the seat in front of her. Her ordeal has only just begun as she proceeds to mimic a tennis ball within the car, catapulting from one side of it to the other, uncontrollably.  All this happens in less than a blink of an eye and at the same speed you were driving at. 140km/hr.

Here’s what happens to an unrestrained infant in the event of an accident

People tend to feel extremely pained by the death or serious injury of a toddler.  As gory as the image of what happens when an unrestrained adult is involved in an accident, it is much more unfathomable when it happens to infants and here’s my take on why….

When it comes to car safety, toddlers are at the mercy of adults whose responsibility is to ensure their well-being as best they can.  When a child is killed or seriously injured in a car accident it is usually as a result of an adult who has shirked the responsibility of bucking them into an appropriate child restraint.

Here’s a short reminder, about just how vulnerable unrestrained toddlers in a car are. At birth, an infant’s head measures approximately a quarter of their total length and it is about a third of their body weight. Their skull is soft and flexible meaning a relatively small impact can result in significant deformation of the skull and brain. Also, their rib cage is not as rigid as that of a grown-up. In a nutshell, it is safe to say that the smaller the child, the smaller the force needed for serious injury.

In the event of an accident, harsh impact to a toddler’s chest can result in a large compression of the chest wall onto the heart and lungs and some of the abdominal organs. And because an infant’s pelvis is fragile, it cannot withstand the forces from an adult restraint system.  For this reason, infants require their own special seats designed to cradle them in a crash and provide protection from many types of crashes.

Now, let’s go back to the scenario in which you are driving (securely buckled-up) at 140km/hr.  This time though, your 5 year old is lying across the rear seat, sound asleep.  Once again an imaginary car comes to a sudden halt and your car collides into it.

At point of impact, your bundle of joy will ricochet within your car like the last jelly bean in the packet; smashing against the roof, doors, windows, and other passengers.  Because his head is heavier than the rest of their body, the horrifying series of aerial acrobatics he performs are all head first.  Eventually, he explodes from the car and lands, goodness knows where!  It could be on the middle of the road, in the path of passing or on-coming traffic, in the nearby bushes, into a body of water or maybe just next to your car.  Without question, they will be severely hurt, if at all alive, wherever they land.

The solution is simply to ensure that everyone in the car is buckled up.

As disturbing as these illustrations are, they are real.  I have heard many gruesome tales from first responders about what they are confronted with at accident sites.  In many instances, first responders talk about how the majority of accidents they are called out to could have been prevented.

The causes of preventable yet fatal accidents in our country relate to:

  1. Poorly maintained vehicles such as cars not serviced, damaged or incorrectly inflated tyres
  2. Poor visibility such as challenging weather conditions, poor eyesight, shattered windscreens
  3. Driver ‘error’ such as speeding, incorrect overtaking, lack of respect for basic road rules
  4. Driving under the influence of alcohol and drugs
  5. Lack of proper usage of safety restraints

In my mind, the high fatality rate on our roads is inexcusable particularly when it comes to using seatbelts and child restraints.  It should be every driver’s rule that the vehicle will not move until all the occupants within it are safely buckled up, irrespective of the intended distance of travel.

As far as the availability and correct use of restraints as a part of everyday practice in taxies and buses – I can only hope that there will come a time when all vehicles on our roads have them and that the owners of those without, face the heavy arm of the law.  It really is high time that seatbelt and child restraint usage in South Africa, became ‘a thing’.

Research credit: Arrive Alive

Airbags and Children: Here’s what you ‘auto’ know

An air bag can save your life. However, air bags and young children are a dangerous combination.​

When used with seat belts, airbags work well to protect teenagers and adults; however, airbags can be very dangerous to children, particularly to those riding in rear-facing seats and to preschoolers and young school-aged children who are not properly restrained. 

Front airbags are installed in all new cars. 

If your vehicle has a front passenger airbag, infants in rear-facing seats must ride in the back seat. Even in a relatively low-speed crash, the airbag can inflate, strike the car seat, and cause serious brain injury and death.

Vehicles with no back seat or a back seat that is not made for passengers are not the best choice for traveling with small children; however, the airbag can be turned off in some of these vehicles if the front seat is needed for a child passenger. See your vehicle owner’s manual for more information.

Image: healthy children.org

Side airbags are available in most new cars. 

Side airbags improve safety for adults in side-impact crashes. Read your vehicle owner’s manual for more information about the airbags in your vehicle. Read your car seat instructions and the vehicle owner’s manual for guidance on placing the seat next to a side airbag.

The following information will help keep you and your children safe:
  • The safest place for all infants and children younger than 13 years to ride is in the back seat.
  • All children should be properly secured in car seats, belt-positioning booster seats, or the seat belts correct for their size.
    • All infants and toddlers should ride in a rear-facing car seat as long as possible or until they reach the highest weight or height allowed by their car safety seat’s manufacturer.
    • All children who have outgrown the rear-facing weight or height limit for their car seat, should use a forward-facing car seat with a harness for as long as possible, up to the highest weight or height allowed by the car seat’s manufacturer.
    • All children whose weight or height is above the forward-facing limit for their car seat should use a belt-positioning booster until the seat belts fit properly, typically when they have reached 1.5meters in height and are between 8 and 12 years of age.

Source: healtychildren.org (Copyright © 2021 American Academy of Pediatrics)

Simplifying the different types of car seats

A car seat is one of the safest to transport your bundle of joy is in a properly installed car seat. There are many different types of car seat brands and it will take considerable effort and time to research the seat best suited for your child and family.  

Car seats can be divided into categories based on the child’s age and weight.  If you are in the market for a car seat, take a look at the table below:

Type of Child Restraint Weight Range Approx. Age Range
Rearward-facing baby seat Group 0
0 – 10kg (22 lbs)
Birth to 6-9 months
Group 0+
0 – 13kg (29 lbs)
Birth to 12-15 months
i-size
Not based on weight, but check child’s height is within the range for the seat
Up to at least 15 months
Combination seat (Rearward and Forward-facing) Group 0+ and 1
0-18 kg (40 lbs)
Birth to 4 yrs
Group 0+, 1 & 2 (55 lbs)
Birth to 25 kg
Birth to 6 yrs
Forward-facing child seat Group 1
9-18 kg (20 – 40 lbs)
9 months to 4 yrs
Group 1, 2 and 3
9 – 36 kg (20 – 79 lbs)
1 to 11 yrs
High-backed Booster Seat Group 2
15 – 25 kg (33 – 55 lbs)
4 to 6 yrs
High-backed Booster Seat Group 2 and 3
15 – 36 kg (33 – 79 lbs)
4 to 11 yrs
Booster Cushion Group 2 and 3
15 – 36 kg (33 – 79 lbs)
4 to 11 yrs
Booster Cushion Group 3
22 – 36 kg (48 – 79 lbs)
6 to 11 yrs
image courtesy of Wheel Well

3 Ways Parents subconsciously put their toddlers in danger: Part 1

As parents, keeping our kids safe from external factors is the norm, but what if we the parents, are the ones our kids need to be kept safe from! 

As parents, we know the importance of driving safely but not many of us consider that our own habits and practises could be more detrimental to our little occupants than the actions of other drivers around us. Here are a few behavioural traits that are harmful to the psyche of our loved ones which many of us are guilty of but can modify.

ACTION

  1. Arguing while driving

DANGEROUS SITUATION

It doesn’t happen very often but parents have been witnessed fighting, yelling and even getting physical in the car. Not only does this type of irrational behaviour distract (and amuse) other motorists, it also puts everyone in the car in grave danger and has long term negative effects on the minor passengers. 

SOLUTION

Keep the heated discussions for the privacy of your bedroom.  Not only is it emotionally unhealthy for the little ones to be exposed to the effects of the family’s dwindling finances or suspected extra marital affair, but verbal altercations can lead to reduced concentration resulting in near misses, fender bumpers or full on crashes.

ACTION

2. Speeding

DANGEROUS SITUATION

Being a working wife and mother, who also triples as a gym bunny, Michelin-star chef and support to her husband is a lot for any human being to manage on a daily basis. Hence it is understandable that a woman may find herself running late from time to time. As logical as speeding may seem it is highly imprudent and could result in death or serious injury to other motorists, yourself or your toddlers. 

SOLUTION

Time management is one of the arduous aspects of adulating, but one which could save your life and the lives of those in and around your vehicle.  Applying your make-up can wait until you get to the office parking lot or restrooms even if it does mean you may have to hold your ID picture up to your face and sign in at the main gate.

ACTION

3. Not having car insurance

DANGEROUS SITUATION

More than 80% of the cars on our roads are uninsured which means at any given time you could be driving within the proximity of 2 – 3 uninsured vehicles; which sounds scary unless yours is also uninsured in which case you would be in the company of a minimum of 4 uninsured cars. The thing about being uninsured, even at a basic level is that you run the risk of being liable for the costs of repairs of your car and that of the other vehicle(s) you may have run into.

SOLUTION

Most would agree that the responsible thing to do would be to investigate the various types of insurance policies you can sign up for which cover you for taking care of the other parties vehicle. We, however would advise that you get cover for your vehicle and occupants too so that you and your kids can receive the necessary medical attention in the event of an accident.

ACTION

DANGEROUS SITUATION

In some countries, driving distracted is ranked more dangerous than driving under the influence of drugs and alcohol. In our view however, regardless of the kids being in the car or not, driving without having your hands at the wheel or with your eyes fixed on the road ahead and around you is a recipe for a life threatening disaster. 

SOLUTION

For the record, distracted driving includes fiddling with the radio controls, eating and drinking, applying make-up, grooming and trying to appease the little ones among other things.

 

What are ISOFIX fittings?

There is much talk about child in-car safety and one of the most common ways to ensure the safety of your precious cargo is with the aid of ISOFIX fittings.  But what exactly are they and how do they work?

The word ISOFIX is derived from the words “International Safety Organization” (ISO) and “Fixation” (FIX).  It is the international standard for attachment points for child safety seats in passenger vehicles.  They are U-shaped brackets welded to the chassis of a car for the sole purpose of securing an ISOFIX compliant child seat or base. Almost all cars come standard with ISOFIX points.  They are not optional extras nor can they be removed.  Should the car owner not need to use them, they remain unobstructive and do not interfere with passenger seating comfort.

Why do I need them?

Prior to ISOFIX fittings and ISOFIX compliant car seats, there was a myriad of different sizes and shaped of car seats on the market.  It can’t have been easy for parents to know which car seat was best for their child. ISOFIX however was designed to give parents peace of mind and security, and by virtue of their design, added protection for children in the event of an accident.

Does my car have them?

Most manufacturers mark the location of the ISOFIX fittings with either the words ISOFIX or a symbol.  Some are covered with hard plastic flaps whereas others are covered by the upholstery of the vehicle.  They are generally located either in the front passenger or rear seats. 

How do I find them?

To identify them, push your hand through the gap where the backrest and seat meet and run it across from one end to the other. Within seconds you will come across the first metallic U-shaped fitting. Continue sliding your hand across the gap until you locate the second.

What do they do?

Those with more grey hair than they care to admit will remember a time when in-car child safety meant securing the car seat with the use of seatbelts and a prayer for the best!  ISOFIX fittings however, keep the car seat firmly in place drastically reducing the possibility of your child tumbling out of his seat in the event of an emergency braking scenario.  

Asides offering optimal safety, ISOFIX and compliant products include:

  • Ease of use
  • Quick and simple to install
  • Convenience

ISOFIX fittings in a car are so important that they have become major considerations in the car buying process.  They minimise the risk of incorrectly installing a car seat and provide a solid and permanent connection between the car and the framework of the child seat.  Should you be in the family way, ISOFIX compliant car seats are a bit pricey but then again, what price wouldn’t you pay to ensure your child’s safety?

The everyday habit which cost us our daughter’s life

I was hesitant to meet with Tinus and Elize Strydom. I knew their story would be difficult to hear and even more challenging to write about. On the one hand I wanted to cover their story but on the other,  I was petrified at the thought of hearing it.

Vuyi Mpofu, Editor – heels and horsepower magazine

Settling into the seats across the table from me, Tinus leans towards Elize and plants a light kiss on her forehead. She sighs happily, throws a shy glance at me, and visibly relaxes her shoulders. I don’t quite know where to begin and my hesitation is visible because Elize reaches for my hand and gives it a reassuring squeeze.   

“Thank you for seeing us,” Tinus begins.  

 “This isn’t easy but we have to tell other parents how we lost our son. It would be horrible to hear that this happened to someone else.” 

I nod in empathetic agreement and he continues.

It had begun to drizzle lightly. Nothing hectic, just a soft patter…

Here’s our story…

“We were on our way back to Johannesburg after spending time with family in Empangeni. Before departing on our 6 hour drive Elize and I had agreed to share driving responsibilities and stick to the 120km/hr speed limit. After refuelling both the vehicle and our tummies in Newcastle, Elize had opted to climb into the rear seat to tend to our 5 month old daughter Opal. Our eldest, 6 year old Ruan couldn’t believe he would be allowed to sit in the front passenger seat because we always place him in his booster seat behind the driver.”

Soon Ruan and Tinus were in deep conversation about the size of the rugby ball his Oupa had given him and how Ruan and his cousins had hidden Ouma’s teeth in the fridge after finding them in a tumbler on her bedside table.  

The car was now facing the vehicle I had overtaken just minutes earlier but was still travelling in the direction we had been facing

We all chuckle woefully. Clearing his throat Tinus continues.  “It had begun to drizzle lightly. Nothing hectic, just a soft patter, the kind that makes you lie on the couch when you are home.”  

The gentle, light and steady rain, didn’t seem a threat but little did Tinus know that his life was about to turn upside down. 

“I must say, I felt content,” Tinus smiles softly. “My family was with me, I was playing my favourite music, the car had been serviced and the rain wasn’t heavy so I continued driving without giving the task much thought.” 

THE ACCIDENT

“I remember glancing in the rear-view mirror and seeing Elize sleeping peacefully with Opal in her arms.  Ruan also asleep, had managed to slip the shoulder belt of the car seat behind his upper body and I remember making a mental note to retrieve his booster seat from the rear when next we stopped. The next thing I recall the car was skidding towards the edge of the road towards the grassy embarkment. I stomped on the brakes and tried to straighten the vehicle but it spun a further 180 degrees. I felt like I was in a movie. The car was now facing the vehicle I had overtaken just minutes earlier but was still travelling in the direction we had been facing. The last thing I remember hearing was Elize screaming, a loud bang and the crunch of metal before everything went dark.”

She had been flung out of her Elize’s arms and had become a fast moving projectile within the car…

When he regained his consciousness, (less than 5 minutes later) Tinus was horrified by the sight that greeted him. “I could only see Ruan’s right arm from beneath the massive airbag; Elize was slumped over and I couldn’t see or hear little Opal.” Panicking Tinus stumbled out of the car and passed out in the arms of the motorist who had been driving behind them.  

The couple would later learn that Tinus had driven through a pool of water, the car had aqua-planned and he had lost control of it.   Fortunately, their injuries were not serious however, the children weren’t so lucky.  

THE AFTERMATH

Ruan, who had only been secured by the lap belt when his father’s car had crashed into a nearby tree, had been thrown forward with an incredible amount of force. The lap belt, without the corresponding effect of the shoulder belt had become like a sharp knife, cutting into the 6 year old’s underdeveloped abdominal fat and muscles, and causing a part of his intestine to rupture and spill out of his severed belly.

If only I had put her back in her car seat after burping her…

Opal on the other hand was the most affected by the accident because she had been in her mother’s arms and not in an appropriate restraint. She had been flung out of her Elize’s arms and had become a fast moving projectile within the car, bouncing against the back of her brother’s seat, and crashing into the right hand passenger window, before hurtling across the width of the car to the far left hand corner of the rear window before being stopped by the headrest of her mother’s seat.  

Tinus’ gruff voice, thick with emotion came to me from a distance, as if I was underwater. I fought back tears and vaguely heard Elize say that Opal had passed away almost instantly due to her vast injuries. Her tiny body had become a ping pong ball within the cabin of the car and her head had struck various objects within the car before she landed on the rear shelf behind the back head rests. Both her arms and left leg had snapped during her uncontrollable rebounding within the car as had her delicate neck.

Ruan was hospitalised for several months during which time he was operated on repeatedly.  Although doctors saved his life, his life in turn has changed drastically. He has had to relearn how to walk, and can only eat food that has been mashed smoothly.  

I don’t believe we are the first parents to lose our child like this.

A WORD TO ALL PARENTS

“We carry our children on our laps all the time,” Elize’s pained voice pierces my thoughts.  “It’s just natural to do so especially when they need to be comforted. If only I had put her back in her car seat after burping her,” her voice trails away.  

After comforting his wife, Tinus adds “We just want other parents to be aware that this sort of thing can happen. We talk about head-on collisions and hijackings and all the rest but these types of accidents don’t get mentioned and I don’t believe we are the first parents to lose our child like this.”

I watch as Tinus and Elize slowly walk away arm in arm, but notice that they are in fact, leaning on one another.  To anyone else it looks like a romantic walk but I know that they are in fact drawing enough physical strength from each other to remain upright.  I marvel at the courage it’s had taken them to recall that horrific incident and share it with a complete stranger. 

Even though it’s part of their healing process I too sincerely hope that no other parent experiences what they are going through.